For all your beginner soft bondage needs, the Naughty Gift Box has you covered.

Photo by Ella Paradis

Soft bondage refers to a form of BDSM where hard impact or other extreme play isn’t part of your game. Even those in traditionally vanilla relationships engage in soft bondage such as light spanking, using handcuffs or ties, and more. If you’ve been thinking of dipping your toes into bondage and aren’t sure where to start when it comes to items, the naughty gift box from Better Love is a great place to begin.

What’s in the Naughty Gift Box?

The naughty gift box itself is really nice and sturdy, and would be perfect to store your items in when you’re finished playing. But boxes aren’t why you’re here. Each box is carefully curated by the folks at Better Love, so depending on availability, you may get different items. My box came with the following:

  • Mini faux leather flogger
  • Massage candle
  • Cock ring
  • Fun Factory booty plug, small
  • Black out blindfold
  • Thin restraint cuffs
  • Feather tickler
  • Bondage rope (very small amount)
  • Instruction guide and BDSM checklist

Pros and Cons

My personal favorite item featured in the naughty gift box is the massage candle. It smells amazing and feels even better. So far, we’ve used it at least 4-5 times and still have some left. You can drip it directly onto the skin for sensory play or pour it into your hands to give a massage. It gets to the perfect temperature, not too hot at all for direct drips.

The cock ring is just a standard ring, nothing fancy, made of silicone. My husband is of a bit over average girth and it fits him with ease as it does have some stretch to it.

I was mildly disappointed in the flogger. It appears to be cheaply made and you really can’t get a good swat with it. It does work well for teasing, such as dragging the ends across different parts of your partner’s body for sensory play, but honestly, that’s about all it’s good for.

The feather tickler is exactly what you think it is and does its job. It isn’t anything special but it hasn’t fallen apart with use so that’s impressive in and of itself.

I’m a big fan of butt plugs, as is my husband, and the Fun Factory small booty plug is perfect for anyone just getting started with anal play. Be aware, it is quite small, so if you’re more advanced in your booty play, it probably isn’t going to do much for you.

Being tied up can be a lot of fun, especially if you couple it with being blindfolded. The included blindfold is essentially a sleep mask, so it should fit most anyone and do what you need it to. The leather cuffs are quite thin and really wouldn’t hold someone determined to be free, but they work just perfectly to ‘secure’ your submissive partner during play, when the illusion of bondage is important. They’re comfortable and they look really pretty.

Honestly, the bondage rope included is rather useless unless all you want to do is secure your partner’s hands. There isn’t much of it and it isn’t sturdy at all. Again, it’s all about the illusion and if you’re not engaging in a heavy rope scene, it would do the job just fine.

Another favorite part of mine is the BDSM checklist. There are two parts, one for each of you, and it’s a simple check box design with the ability to fill in the blank for items not listed. What I like about it is the fact that it causes you and your partner to have a conversation about what you are and are not willing to try or are interested in researching further. Anything that promotes communication is excellent in my book.

Who should purchase this?

Anyone who is new to bondage or BDSM and would like a little bit of everything to get them started. Most of BDSM is in your mind, so you don’t absolutely need items to get started, but if you want the tools, this naughty gift box is a good place to start. Advanced practitioners will honestly find this set to be lacking, so I wouldn’t recommend for anyone who is established. The naughty box is a fun way to gift your partner and give you ideas for things to do on date night or a special event.

Ella Paradis and Better Love provided this box to me in exchange for an honest review. The links contained herein are affiliate links, so not only will you get a quality item, you’ll also be supporting my work.

When you’re a sex toy tester, one of the ways you feel you’ve ‘made it’ is when you’re finally contacted by a high-end sex toy company and asked to test one of their toys. Maybe that’s just me! One of the happiest emails I ever received was from Lelo, asking if I would be willing to test one of their items and review it. Of course, I said yes! I’ve always wanted to own one of their toys, but haven’t been able to justify purchasing one myself due to budget constraints. Sometimes it sucks being a responsible adult!

I chose the Tiani 3, Lelo’s couples vibrator. My husband and I are always on the look out for toys we can use together. Don’t get me wrong, we both love our solo playtime, but having multi-use toys is never a bad thing. And don’t worry, the Tiani 3 can be used alone, no penis necessary.

What is the Tiani 3?

Billed as a couple’s vibrator, the Tiani 3 is a U shaped vibrating toy, designed to be used during intercourse, but it works just fine on its own. It is primarily a clitoral vibrator, with two distinct ends. The smaller end is inserted into the vagina and does not independently vibrate. Don’t worry, the vibrations from the other end definitely travel through. As this device is designed for use during intercourse, this is the end that will stimulate both partners.

Speaking of the other end, it goes over the labia and clitoris, to provide waves of pleasure by way of an intense vibrating action. And that’s not just lip service (pun intended), this tiny toy packs a big punch. And, it’s completely waterproof.

How Does it Work?

Since the toy is inside of you while in use, it may seem like you’re stuck with whatever setting you chose upon insertion. However, Lelo kindly provides you with a wireless remote (that resembles a small hockey puck) you can use to control your toy. There are three different modes of vibration available, and they’re pretty amazing.

Two of the modes are powered by Lelo’s SenseMotion technology (if you have an iPhone, you’ve encountered this tech before, it’s what runs the gyroscope used to register your steps), with the third option being a more traditional style of control.

SenseMotion Mode 1 makes the remote, as well as the massager, vibrate. You control the intensity of the vibrations by tilting the remote in either direction. The closer you move toward a 90 degree angle, the more intense the vibrations become.

SenseMotion Mode 2 also features the remote and massager vibrating, the difference being, the faster the remote is moved, the stronger the vibrations. The more excited you get with your movements, the more pleasure you’ll get!

The final mode is similar to how a remote typically functions. You can choose the intensity of the vibration by using the plus and minus buttons. The remote does not vibrate in this mode, and how you tilt or move the remote has zero bearing on the intensity or function.

I wasn’t sure why the remote vibrated in the two SenseMotion modes, but the more I thought about it, the more sense it made. If two females played with this toy, one could enjoy the Tiani 3 itself, while the other controlled the vibrations (and place the remote on their own body to feel what’s going on). It also gives sensory feedback to whomever is controlling the remote, allowing them to feel how hard the Tiani 3 is moving inside their partner’s body, giving you more control over the sensations.

My Personal Experience

Lelo prides itself on being a luxury sex toy retailer, with a fairly high price point. But are their toys really worth it? Do they really know how to provide pleasure to their customers?

That’s a resounding, yes.

Using the Tiani 3 is a learning experience. Using it for the first time, I had to bend and move it a few times before finding the right fit. What I like the most is the ability to do so, as other toys I’ve owned don’t always accommodate for different body types. Once I was able to bend and shape the device to my body, it stayed in place pretty well. There are positions it’s not a fan of. Gravity is a thing, and doggy style isn’t a recommended position for a reason.

We found that missionary or cowgirl work the best. The vibrations are consistent, starting out at what I would consider middle of the road and increasing to high. If you have a very sensitive clitoris, this toy may be too intense for you, as the contact is direct.

SenseMotion Mode 1 provides infinite combinations of pleasure and is a lot of fun to experience. I’ve had my husband, Damian, tilt the device in every conceivable direction (while I watch his movements) and enjoy the waves of pleasure that ensue.

SenseMotion Mode 2 is the easiest to use, in my opinion. Damian holds the remote in his hand, while doing what he normally does when we have intercourse. His movements change, depending on how he’s thrusting or moving, and so does the level of vibration.

Manual mode, for us, isn’t used often. I’ve read other reviews that say couples tend to use this more often when having penetrative sex, but I found it distracting to feel for the plus and minus buttons when I wanted to change the vibration (and Damian did as well), so we stick with the other two modes more often than not.

This is a couple’s vibrator, so if you’re looking for something with more intense vibration for yourself, this isn’t the toy for you. Although at the highest setting, it definitely delivers a punch, if you’re more about a direct feel on your clitoris, this may not do what you need. What I love is the fact that Damian feels the vibrations with me, which definitely makes this toy the perfect item for a male/female couple.

Where Can I Get the Tiani 3?

Lelo has the best price available online and keep this item in stock, so you don’t have to worry about availability. Now, until the end of June, you can use my code, DELUNE to receive 10 percent off any item on Lelo’s site (not valid on already discounted items).

The Bottom Line

While this toy is marketed as a couple’s vibrator, I love that you can still use it alone if you choose. With that said, having a couple’s specific toy to add to our toy box is something we’ve wanted to do for some time, and the Tiani 3 is the perfect addition. This is our first high quality toy to use together, and we couldn’t be happier. Lelo stands behind their products, provides quality customer service, and is a leader in the sex toy industry for a reason.

This article contains affiliate links. Not only will you receive a high quality item, you’ll also help support my work. Thanks to Lelo for providing such an amazing toy.

ROFIYTI is fairly new to the sex toy scene, but don’t let that deter you. They recently contacted me about becoming a tester for their line of toys and I agreed. Shipping is discrete and fast, and their prices are in line with other, high quality sex toy companies.

The first toy they asked me to test is their 2 in 1 Clitoral Stimulating Vibrator. Also known as the Carr, this adorable, baby pink toy is small, but packs a lot of punch in a tiny container.

Rofiyti 2 in 1 Clitoris Stimulating Vibrator

What makes this toy 2 in 1? I wasn’t too sure either, until I turned it on. The knobbed handle doubles as a clitoris stimulating vibrator, with the open end provides suction power for any part of your body that desires it. The suction isn’t super strong, so it’s great for those who have super sensitive clits and don’t like to feel as if they’re being attacked by a vacuum cleaner.

The toy is made from medical grade, body safe silicone, is very soft, and simple to clean. Since it’s 100% waterproof, you can rinse under water with ease. This also means you can enjoy the toy while in the shower or bath without worry. It charges by USB magnetic charging, with the provided cable.

How Well Does it Work?

I have had hit or miss experiences with clitoris stimulating vibrators, especially those that promise to mimic oral sex. Personally, I have thick outer lips, so whatever toy thinks it’s going to suck on my clit has to be able to get in there. Shape and size make a huge difference, which I think is accurate for anyone. Those of us with vulvas are all different.

This particular toy is wide on the suction end, therefore it doesn’t seal well around my clit. This doesn’t mean it isn’t enjoyable, it is, but it takes a bit more work than it probably would for someone whose clitoris is more exposed.

My favorite way to use this toy is the handle end directly on my clitoris. It has a nice buzzy feeling, with a bit of rumble, and can bring me to orgasm fairly quickly this way. It’s also small enough for me to use during intercourse, providing extra stimulation to my clit while being penetrated.

The suction end does work on my nipples quite nicely and we’ve used it for that more than anything. Though, I will say, the hubby enjoyed the vibrations on his balls quite a bit when I tried it on him. The suction doesn’t really do anything for him either.

Overall, it’s a very well made toy that has multiple uses. I’m a bit disappointed I can’t get the suction part to work for clitoral stimulation, but that’s solely due to the way my body is shaped, it says nothing about the toy itself. The suction does work, as is evidenced by my nipple play, just not exactly where I want it.

If you have an exposed clit, and want to try a clitoris stimulating vibrator, I would recommend this product. At $49.95, it’s a great price for what it does. You can grab yours here!

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Starlet 2 is a clitoral stimulator that can offer unique and orgasmic experiences through contactless air suction. As an upgraded version from the original Starlet, this model embraced some big improvements including adding waterproof function, enhanced button-control and more.

Starlet 2 is an intro-level suction toy in the Womanizer family. It is very light, simple and straightforward. So, if you are looking for more sophisticated functions, I recommend trying Womanizer Duo or Womanizer Classic instead. But for the price, you can’t beat what the Starlet 2 has to offer.

Briefly speaking, Starlet 2 is an ideal toy for those of you who want a simple yet high-quality, affordable yet effective clitoral stimulator. Also, the Starlet 2 is a beginner-friendly model to try out.

Key Features

1. Lively Color Options

The Womanizer Starlet 2 comes in three bold colors: Sapphire Blue, Coral, and Cherry Red. All three colors are quite lively and adorable. Being honest, I’m thrilled there are options beyond the typical pink and purple.

2. Safe Material

The body of the Starlet 2 is made of ABS plastic, which offers a smooth sensation for your hand to hold. The suction head is made of hypoallergenic medical-grade silicone, which enables a soft and gentle wrap for your clitoris.

3. Light-Weight

Starlet 2 is a rather light toy. It only weighs 70 g (0.15 lb), which is even a bit lighter than the Womanizer Liberty (90g/0.2lb) – a travel-friendly model. Therefore, the Starlet 2 became my new travel pal to go out with.

4. Small in Size

As a palm-size toy that measures 104mm x 55mm x 48mm (4″ x 2.2″ x 1.9″), you can easily fit Starlet 2 in your makeup bag. The only thing you need to pay attention to is that there’s no travel lock equipped for this toy, so be careful not to accidentally turn it on.

5. 100% Waterproof

This is one of the big improvements Starlet 2 embraces compared to the original model. Now it is completely waterproof!

Despite the size of the toy, the motor of this toy is rather strong, which leads to divine and intense air suction to your clitoris. Worry that the sensation is too strong? This does happen, but don’t worry about that! If you prefer it a little less intense, there are 4 levels of intensities to choose from.

6. Quick charge & Quick use

This is a super handy toy when it comes to rechargeability. A full charging process only takes about 30 minutes then you will be able to play with the toy for 30 minutes.

7. Noise

Starlet 2 is a rather quiet clit stimulator. Even on the highest speed, it doesn’t exceed 55 dB, which is the noise level of a quiet living room. And the toy is even quieter when applied to the clit.

How to Use Womanizer Starlet 2

Starlet 2 is very intuitive and straightforward to use. I am sure you would figure out how to use this toy within seconds. Using a bit of lube on the silicone tip of the Starlet and some on your clit helps the toy ‘wave’ more smoothly. Then just start the toy! There are two buttons, a plus and minus. To activate, press the plus button for 2 seconds. Then apply to your clit and enjoy the waves of pleasure. In order to switch off the toy, press the minus button for 2 seconds. It does auto shut off after 10 minutes.

Charging the Toy

The Womanizer Starlet 2 comes with a magnetic charging cable. The magnetic charging system allows the toy to be completely waterproof. Starlet 2 promotes a quick charge and quick play concept. It only takes around 30 minutes to fully charge your device and the playtime is about 30 minutes as well. Once fully charged, Starlet 2 has a steady LED light.

My Experience

I have to say, the Womanizer Starlet 2 is outstanding on the design and sensation, but there are a few things that are concerning with this model. Here are my experiences and my opinions.

The charging process was quite smooth and quick. I really like this point. But you only get 30 minutes of play after each charge. This isn’t too much of a problem for me as I barely need minutes to “finish” with this toy, but some of you may want to take it into consideration.

There are no pattern options with Starlet 2. This doesn’t bother me much because I prefer continuous stimulation anyway. However, one thing you do need to take into consideration is that Starlet 2, unlike other Womanizer toys, doesn’t come with an optional larger head.

This is unfriendly to women who have a relatively larger clit because the current size may not wrap your clit well, or at least it may not wrap your clit in a comfortable way. The Womanizer store does sell heads for an extra cost.

There were some occasions where I did not use lube with this toy and it worked perfectly fine. So if you don’t have lube on hand, it’s not a big deal. But if you do want to use lube, make sure to only use water-based lube so that the silicone head won’t be damaged.

The Bottom Line

The price of the Womanizer Starlet 2 puts it in a great category of toys. It’s relatively inexpensive so trying it out won’t break the bank. Though it’s not designed for coupled play really, it can be used during penetrative sex, if you’re okay with having an intense orgasm pretty quickly! Which in today’s world, isn’t the worst thing that can happen.

Right now, the Womanizer Starlet Snow is on sale for $49! Use my coupon code COSMO10 at checkout to get the best price. The Snow is a more compact version of the Starlet, and priced a bit lower.

You can also use coupon code VIPLIST to get an extra 5% off all Womanizer products. What a great way to save on your Christmas List!

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The Hitachi Magic Wand (Original Magic Wand) is marketed as a personal massager, but we all know what we really use it for. Okay, I massage my entire body with it, but that’s definitely not why I bought it! When this item was released initially released in 1968 (yes, that long ago and still going STRONG), it was originally manufactured for relieving tension and relaxing sore muscles, but is most famous for its use as a sex toy.

Sex educator Betty Dodson popularized its use as a vibrator and masturbation aid for women during the sex-positive movement in the late 1960s. It functions effectively as a clitoral vibrator and is able to bring many people to orgasm. The wand is 12 inches (30 cm) long and weighs 1.2 pounds (540 g) with stimulation provided by its rubberized 2.5-inch (64 mm) head. This is important to note, as anything lighter is most likely a knock-off.

Be sure you’re getting the real thing.

Well known as the Cadillac of vibrators, the Original Magic Wand (as it’s now branded) is the world’s most recognizable sex toy.

What’s the Fuss About the Magic Wand?

I’ll admit, I’m a skeptic when it comes to the boasts of sex toy companies. Of course, they all want to sell their product. What impressed me the most about the Original Magic Wand is, I don’t think I’ve ever heard a bad review!

What makes this toy so popular is the type of vibrations it gives. They’re not buzzy at all, but rumbly, which for people like me, means an almost instant clitoral orgasm.

Though this toy isn’t made for insertion, you can purchase attachments that fit over the head to accommodate any insertion fantasy you may have. The covers also act as a barrier to the rubberized head (which is porous) to make clean up even easier.

There Has to be a Down Side, Right?

No toy is perfect, thought the Original Magic Wand comes close. But it does have its downsides. The head is made of rubberized material, not body safe silicone. It can’t be exposed to water at all, so cleaning is not the easiest. We recommend a soft, wrung out cloth to wipe it down after use. You can also spray a toy cleaner directly on the cloth and clean.

The Original Magic Wand is corded, which limits your movements a bit. The cord is six feet long, so you have a bit of wiggle room, but not much. There is a cordless version available now, which also features a silicone head, so it’s close to perfect.

If you’re looking for a discrete toy, this is not the one. It is LOUD. If you cover yourself with a blanket during use, it cuts down on the noise a bit, but not much. So if you need something your neighbors or housemates won’t hear, this isn’t the toy for you.

It’s recommended for use up to 20 minutes, otherwise, you run the risk of it over-heating. From personal experience, I can tell you, it does begin to get warm around the 15-20 minute mark.

But for me, that’s not a huge deal when I’m using it for clitoral stimulation. Why? Because never has it taken even 15 minutes for me to cum with this toy. Ever. If I get close to that mark, I’ve already had multiple orgasms.

The Bottom Line

Overall, this is a must have for any sex toy connoisseur. I highly recommend everyone have one in their bedside table. Being honest, if for some reason this toy doesn’t do it for you sexually, you’ll have one helluva powerful personal massager on your hands. I really do use it both ways! My husband has enjoyed the vibrations before a back massage at least as many times as I’ve enjoyed the sexual pleasure it brings.

If you choose the Original Magic Wand, the price is around $60 USD, which isn’t unreasonable. If you upgrade to the Magic Wand Plus (which has a silicone head and cord you can store), you’re looking at around $80 USD. For the ultimate upgrade, there’s the Magic Wand Rechargeable, pricing around $129 USD.

Being honest, the Rechargeable is not really worth it for the cost, unless you’re adamant about not being corded. The Magic Wand Plus will be your best option for body safe material with rumbles you’ll feel for years.

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The Lovense Hush butt plug is a smooth, sexy, powerful toy designed to stimulate all your anal pleasure spots. It comes in two sizes, small and medium. The main selling point of this butt plug, compared to others on the market, is Hush can give you pleasure from a distance. It’s a remote-controlled toy, operated from yours or your partner’s cell phone.

The Bluetooth chip inside the toy connects to your phone, and your partner’s phone, so you can control it via Wi-Fi.

Who Is Hush For?

Lovense Hush butt plug is designed for solo play, discreet public play, and long distance couples – it’s a good option for an intense boost when you’re having sex, for sexy foreplay, or for those times when your partner is out of town and you need a solo session.

How Does the Lovense Hush Work?

The Lovense Hush butt plug is compatible with both Android and iPhone. In order to hook up, you download the Lovense app from the store. Turn on the toy and check it’s working by seeing the flashing light; it also buzzes to let you know it’s connected.

Then you follow the instructions on the app to find and connect the toy. It’s quite simple. However, if you choose to use it with your PC, you will need to purchase a USB Bluetooth Adapter to connect. Mac’s don’t require the additional item.

To connect with a partner you go to the “Long Distance” tab on the app, and tap to add a contact. They get an email from you with the request and once they have accepted they will show up in the “Long Distance” tab. There’s a messaging section where you can let each other know you’re ready to play, and you can adjust settings for each partner to allow auto-play or control.

Pros and Cons of the Hush

The smooth, inviting body-safe silicone feels just right, and the matte finish is stylish and modern. The butt plug itself is weighty without being hefty. It comes in two sizes, small and medium, so one is sure to work for your needs.

The power on/off button is on the base of the toy and it is not immediately obvious. You also have to hold it down for a few seconds to turn it on or turn it off, but this is a good thing as it prevents the toy switching itself off when you’re sitting down.

The vibrations are definitely strong. You have multiple patterns to choose from, and 3 vibration levels.

You can also use the app on your phone or computer. Tap or slide the screen to control the vibrations, moving your finger up and down, and it is really responsive – a bit too responsive sometimes, as taking your finger off the app brings the fun to an abrupt end. It seems to work best when you record your own short sequence, which then plays on and on automatically. You can create as many patterns as you like. Or you can just put it on pure and simple vibrate, when you’re not feeling creative. Great when you want to let it take over.

Speaking of taking over, the Lovense Hush butt plug is ideal for long-distance relationships. So long as you both have an internet connection, it works, no matter if you’re on the other side of the world. They control the vibrations on their screen, setting up the patterns and deciding how fast, slow, or majorly intense they want the toy to go. And it also works with the element of surprise – keep it in and your partner can give you a buzz whenever they feel like it.

It seems like Hush is an excellent option when you want to switch between controlling the toy from a long distance or from close range. The connection seems to be pretty stable and you don’t have to keep your phone right next to you either.

The silicone is also completely waterproof so you can shower with this thing in, or just leave it in with plenty of lube and don’t have to worry about damage.

It is created for wearability above all else, and the makers say you can keep it in for long periods of time as you get your regular day done. It is pretty quiet, but it’s not silent. You can definitely hear it when it’s on a full vibe and it’s inside you. It’s discreet enough to be worn in a busy public place but I wouldn’t want it on when things were quiet.

The sound-activated vibe is fun! Any noise will activate it, so keep that in mind.

The Bottom Line

This is a luxury toy with so many features, you can’t go wrong. Lovense has taken a lot of time to perfect their technology and it shows. Using the app is simple and doesn’t require any special equipment or knowledge (as long as you’re not using with a PC). You can stimulate yourself with the app or give over the controls to your partner for extra fun.

If butt plugs aren’t your thing, Lovense also has the Lush, which is made specifically for women (for vaginal wear) and offers a lot of the same features.

Either way you go, you can’t make a bad choice, so why not purchase both? Imagine the feeling of being full, with two rock star toys, that your partner can control so you’re truly hands free. The Lovense Hush butt plug plus the Lush? Sounds like the perfect date night to me!

The idea of a sex machine has been intriguing to me since the first time I saw one at a swinger’s club.

So much so, I convinced my second husband to build one for me.

Although it was rudimentary, it got the job done for a fraction of the cost of a branded machine, which were upwards of $1000 back then. Being the tech savvy person he was, he even tried to integrate the machine with computer controls, which didn’t exactly work as he planned.

Overall, it was a neat experience, but left me wanting something a bit less DIY.
Hismith recently reached out to me and asked if I would be interested in reviewing their latest sex machine. I couldn’t say yes fast enough. My dream was coming true, I would finally be the proud owner of a legitimate sex machine.

Pricing: The Best Bang For Your Buck

While the cost of ownership of a sex machine has decreased in the years since I first became aware of them, they’re still a hefty investment. You’ll want to ensure you’re getting the best quality machine for your price point. If you order from my link, be sure to use code HSM10 at checkout to get a free spring attachment, valued at $30.

Hismith offers a number of sex machines in a variety of price points. With something to meet the needs of just about anyone, they’re an obvious place to shop.

According to their website, these are the current options available; priced low to high:

Hismith Auto Thrusting Machine– This is their lowest priced model. It’s a tabletop machine, with suction cups for extra hold. The stroke length is 2.4 inches and it features a 3XLR connector.

Hismith Affordable Supermatic Fucking Machine– This model is just a bit more than the thrusting machine and is set up like a ‘machine gun’. It seems sturdier. The stroke length is 2.4 inches and also features a 3XLR connector.

Hismith Rechargeable Portable Fucking Machine Capsule– For those who don’t want a bulky machine, this is the lowest priced portable option available. It is remote and app controlled, so you can send a link to anyone and hand over control with ease. This is the first machine on our list which features the kliclock attachment system.

Hismith Table Top 2–Premium Sex Machine with KlicLok System– This is the upgraded version of their original table top sex machine. Emma Austin recently reviewed this item, which you can read here.

Hismith APP Controlled Canon Series– This machine packs a lot of punch for a mid-range price. It’s design is compact, but don’t let that fool you. It has just as much torque as the larger machines!

Hismith Premium Remote Controlled Sex Machine– A heavier duty machine, complete with remote control, this option gives you the longest stroke length available from Hismith, up to 6 inches!

Hismith Premium Quad Penetration APP Controlled Sex Machine– Have you always wondered what DP would be like? Well, this powerful machine has you covered. With a stroke length of just shy of 6 inches and up to 240 RPMs of speed, you’ll have your wish granted. It can be app controlled, wireless remote controlled, or wired.

Hismith Tip Activated Sex Machine– this is the machine I have, so let’s get into the specs, shall we?

About the Hismith tip activated sex machine

Upon opening the box, the first thing I noticed was the heavy-duty bag the machine was packed in. The straps are well sewn, so no worries about them breaking. The sex machine is not lightweight by any means, coming in at about 25 pounds.
The machine comes with everything you need to assemble it and get started.
Inside the bag:
1 × premium sex machine
2 x solid steel legs and 2 x solid steel cross bars
1 x L-wrench
1 × portable nylon bag
1 × wired controller
1 × APP and remote controller
1 × 8″(21 cm) silicone dildo with water based lubricant

Power and Stroke of the Sex Machine

These are the two important features that show if the sex machine is good or corners have been cut.

With cheap thrusting sex machines, you’ll notice short stroke length. If you’re in the market for something more affordable than the model I have, you’ll have to sacrifice stroke length.

If the motor is weak, and the machine meets any resistance, it will stop or bind up. Not an issue with this Hismith Sex Machine. During testing, I realized this machine is intuitive. When it met resistance, instead of stopping, it just slows down.

Genius.

The parts, motor, solid metal (for weight) just cost too much for companies to use and be able to provide a cheaper machine. And even the software that comes with it isn’t cheap. Cheap and well-built don’t go together. Don’t settle for less than you deserve.

With Hismith you get 100W, 300N cm torque output that feels like having sex with power. Because it is. I can’t tell you the horsepower, but trust me, it’s more than enough.

Power means nothing if it’s not coupled with deep thrusting. The stroke length is easily adjustable from 1 to 6 inches (average penis size is 5.17 inches). So you have choices, lots of them.

How Loud Is The Machine?

If you’ve got kids running around or nosy neighbors it usually is a good idea to lock the doors and crank up the music for background noise. However, this machine is super quiet.
This video demonstrates both how to assemble the sex machine and what you get in the package. At 5min20s mark, the demonstrator runs the machine full blast if you want to hear the noise level.

It sounds louder than you think. 50dB is not very loud in the grand scheme of things. It’s comparable to a whisper or soft music.

Troubleshooting: What if things go wrong?

This is a big deal, especially when you’ve forked out a good chunk of change.
I haven’t found, so far, any other sex machine company that gets so many positive reviews. Their Amazon store has a 97% positive approval rating over the lifetime of the store. Hismith offers a 1-year warranty for the whole sex machine and a 2 year warranty for the motor.

Their customer service/troubleshooting is handled by email and their turn-around time is about 8 hours. Keep in mind, their customer service team is in China, so accommodate for time difference.

How Fast Is The Delivery?

Hismith delivers from whatever closest warehouse there is to you. So, if you’re in the United States like I am, your machine will be delivered from their Amazon Flagship Store, here in the US.

It took approximately 4 days for me to receive everything ordered. The machine itself was here in 3 days.

The shipping is discreet. Mine came in an Amazon outer box, with the item in a neutral brown box with Hismith Automatic device printed on the label.

No sensitive words.

Once assembled, you can also use the bag the machine comes with for storage. If you don’t want to disassemble, the model I received even comes with a handy dust cover, which goes over the entire unit, minus the legs, making it easy to discreetly store in the corner of your room without question.

Attachments

By default, this Hismith comes with Quick Air connector or Kliclok. Mine also came with a six inch insertable length dildo and a cock sheath.

To use suction cup or Vac-u-loc dildos, you’ll need to get adapters. Hismith offers adapters for both types, as well as a ‘bandage’ adapter for male masturbators, a clip for your wands, and a spring attachment to make using heavier toys better.
You can always purchase Kliclok based dildos from Hismith, and the attachment at the base is removable if you want to use the dildo without the machine.

Here are three sex toy attachments I recommend:

spring attachment - more forgiving with the angles, requires less adjustment. If you don’t like re-setting your machine and just need a bit of an angle adjustment, the spring attachment works well.

extension rod -If you’re a squirter, like I am, this is a must. It puts your body further away from the mechanical portions of the machine while still giving you the thrust you desire.

DP attachment -this speaks for itself. If you don’t purchase the machine specifically for DP, you can purchase this attachment and make your machine a DP powerhouse.

How it Feels Being Fucked by a Sex Machine

My husband and I tested this together, so I could concentrate on the amazing feelings while he controlled the machine. Once we got it set to the depth and speed we wanted, he was hands free to do whatever he liked.

This particular machine comes with a wireless remote and a wired one. If your partner likes to sit back and watch, either remote is handy. The wireless one has a range of about 20 meters.

But this sex machine comes with a bonus. It can be controlled by an app on your phone. Just download the app and watch the sparks fly. When I’m home during the day and my husband is out working, we can text one another and set up a time for him to toy with me via machine.

I send him a link and he instantly has access. Your machine needs to be on to connect to the app and get links. This sex machine is also enabled to work with Chaturbate, a cam model site.

Once you download the software on your computer and connect it to your Chaturbate account, clients can control your machine via tips. How cool is that?

The feeling can get intense, so you’ll want to play with the controls to find the right settings for you. The app comes pre-programmed with eight different settings to get you started. There’s also a community feature on the app where other users have created their own settings for you to use if you’d like.

Unlike using a dildo or vibrator with just your hand, a sex machine gives you the option to use your hands or another toy on your clit (or other parts of your body) while being fucked. It takes masturbation to a whole new level.

I will say, it takes some adjusting. Our machine is on a stand, but it isn’t very tall, so unless I’m willing to lie on the floor, some ingenuity had to come into play. We have an old piano bench we weren’t using, which is the perfect height to rest the machine on, while I lie on the bed.

It allows me to be comfortable while getting fucked, and who doesn’t want that?

If you’re planning to use the machine (with stand) on a hardwood floor or any smooth surface, I recommend putting extra grip on the bottom bars. They come with anti-skid caps, but they don’t grip on smooth surfaces very well. When you are using the machine, you don’t want it to move (other than thrusting!) or you may end up getting fucked where you don’t want.

We added rubber grip to the bottom bars and that fixed the issue.

Pro-Tips and Tricks

  • the metal piece that from the dildo (quick connector) will tend to rust if you don’t dry it off well.
  • if you’re using a sex machines on high speed and it’s moving around add a sand-bag or a dumbbell on the base. If it’s moving because you’re on a smooth surface (not carpet) then adding rubber grip to the bottom bars helps a lot.
  • when you find the right angles for the positions, put marks on the stands for quicker future setup.
  • make sure everything is tightened down before you start the engine. Use the provided L wrench for that.

 

The Bottom Line

I recommend it wholeheartedly, however, no machine is great for everyone.
The biggest downside I can find is, this machine isn’t that compact - so if you care for something light and discreet, this will be overkill. But don’t worry, Hismith makes lighter, more portable machines for those who don’t need or want a heavy duty monster like this one.

For me, this sex machine with a sturdy stand is perfect. But I love that they offer other options to accommodate everyone.

For the price, this machine is well-built, easy to assemble, and a lot of fun to use. I expect to have this sex toy for a long time and get a ton of use from it.

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