I don’t have a prostate, but I’m married to someone who does, so when Best Vibe asked me to review this inflatable prostate massager, I agreed. It’s marketed as a g-spot vibe as well, but we’ll talk about that more later.

The Look and Feel

This inflatable prostate massager is made from silicone and has a very smooth feel, which is a must when you’re planning to insert it into your rectum. The last thing you need is the feel of harsh seams or poorly made material.

Silicone is body safe. Please keep in mind, you’ll need something other than silicone lubricant for any silicone toy, as the two do not mix well at all. You’ll possibly end up with a melted toy and that’s never fun.

Upon unboxing, I noticed a decent heft to the item, which is good. It’s not too heavy, but heavy enough you’ll know it’s in your hand. It comes with a bit of juice already, but I went ahead and connected to the USB charger to get it up to capacity.

Playing with the Toy

Before involving my husband and his prostate, I wanted to get a feel for how the toy worked. I didn’t want to be in the middle of sexy time, figuring out which buttons to push.

The inflatable prostate massager comes with two buttons, power and pattern changing. Simply hold the power button down for a few seconds, and the toys comes on. You can press the other button to cycle through the available changes.

This toy is inflatable, but that doesn’t happen until you cycle through the patterns, so it’s nice to be able to turn it on and insert it, then get your fill, so to speak. I wanted to find out which cycle I thought was the best size for a beginner to prostate pleasure, so I played with them all before we got down to business.

Once we got into our evening, I broke out this toy to use during foreplay. I carefully lubed and inserted, then began giving him oral. When he was nice and turned on, then I cycled to the appropriate setting.

How well does an inflatable prostate massager work?

As a prostate massager, it’s aces. My biggest concern was getting it inflated too much, but since I took the time to cycle through our options ahead of time, it wasn’t a concern. It’s the perfect length to reach the prostate and according to my husband, puts the right amount of pressure on it.

You can slide it in and out slightly, once it’s inflated, but that’s up to you and your partner.

Now, as a g-spot stimulator, it’s a no go, at least for me. I find I need a toy that’s a bit longer than this in order to reach my g-spot and provide the pressure needed for orgasm. We even tried it anally, to see if the pressure there would also press on my g-spot from behind and were unsuccessful. But with so many great g-spot specific products on the market, I wasn’t disappointed. I wanted this for him.

The Bottom Line

Overall, this is a nice toy for the price. It’s currently $32 through Best Vibe.

I love the USB charging, it comes with a cord (3.5 mm to insert into toy, USB to go in your charging port) but no power block, which is expected. I am not a fan of the magnetic charging via USB, so I was happy this wasn’t one of those. It takes about 2 hours to come to a full charge. We’ve played with it numerous times and it holds a charge for a good while.

It’s made of high grade silicone, which offers a smooth and soft feel, which is good. We’ve had the toy for about 6 months now, and so far, it still works beautifully. It’s waterproof, so it’s easy to clean with warm water and non-irritating soap.

The only con I can find is the inability to control the inflation more. The cycles aren’t much different from one another, beyond the vibration pattern. It would be nice to be able to choose the level of inflation beyond that. But for the price, I didn’t really expect much in the way of variety.

Best Vibe provided this toy to me in exchange for an honest review. None of the links contained herein are affiliate links.

 

Sex toys have often been considered a solo adventure, especially for women. Using sex toys as a couple is a conversation that can be awkward for some, but well worth the results. When it comes to our pleasure, being open-minded is not a bad thing.

A few months ago, I learned through experimentation, my husband enjoys having certain toys used on him. There’s never been an issue bringing toys into bed with us, other than lack of toys, but he never expressed interest in having one for himself.

When Sex Toys and Your Man Are a Great Combination

I gave my first hand-job to completion to my husband back in October and added my vibrating bullet to the mix. While using my hand on his shaft, I placed the bullet under his testicles. It was a clear winner. Lots of lube, slippery hand up and down the shaft (paying lots of attention to the head) and a vibrator on his testicles was the perfect combination for ejaculation.

It wasn’t long after the epic hand-job we had our first experience together using a toy, on him, internally.

The same vibrating bullet from our first toy run came into play again. It’s the first time my husband ever had anything larger than a finger inserted in his anus.

After five years of being together and learning he won’t be judged, he was finally able to let go and experience the pleasure he’s desired.

Stepping Up Our Game With a Vibrating Wand

Since our first experiences, we’ve been lucky enough to add more toys to our collection. Being asked to review toys has been a blessing for many reasons, not the least of which is bulking up our collection and learning what toys we do and don’t like.

We have an awesome inflatable that’s become a go-to anytime we break out the toys. I can use it on him or he can use it on me. My favorite is using it to stimulate his p-spot. I love the orgasm this causes and the look of sheer ecstasy on his face.

Recently, we got a new vibrating wand to try. I’ll admit, I was a bit leery as I own a wand already. I wasn’t sure what owning two wands would do for me, but I was willing to try.

We’ve been due a toy night, so last night was the perfect time to test out our newest addition to the toy family.

Hubby requested to be tied up, so who am I to deny such a lovely request?

After trussing him up, I wanted to tease him a bit. He loves to tease me and make me wait and I wanted to return the favor, when he wasn’t able to do anything about it.

Yes, I’m evil.

Starting with our newest toy, the  mushroom head vibrating wand , I turned it on and ran it over his thighs. The first thing I noticed is the strength of the vibrations. Holding it in your hand, it feels like it might be too much. It does have seven different settings and I flipped through them all to test them out.

Now, personally, I’m not a big fan of the changing patterns for myself. It’s frustrating when you’re trying to get off to have the pattern and intensity changed. If we’re playing and not going straight for the O, then it’s awesome. But if I’m using it alone, I go for the single pattern vibration.

Once you place the toy on the body, the vibrations are diffused. Hubby said it felt fantastic across his entire cock and balls. I have to agree, as he was attempting to break the restraints to buck off the bed.

Taking Teasing to Pleasing

I had my fun teasing with the vibrating wand and decided to add oral to the mix. That’s always a winning combination and this time was no different. It wasn’t long before he was ready to come out of the restraints and get down to more fun.

Taking matters into my own hands again, I rode cowgirl for a while before letting him have his way with me.

It was time to let him test the vibrating wand on myself, so I could see just how great it is.

The large surface of the wand’s end covers a lot of area. I love how it covers my entire clit and the area around it, giving good targeted vibrations.

It’s curved shape fits easily in your hand and the curves of your body making it easy to hold while getting the pleasure you desire.

Due to the shape, it’s perfect for holding between your bodies while having missionary sex. It also worked well in doggy and cowgirl.

The Final O

After more orgasms than I can count, it was time to call it a night. Our new toy is an awesome new addition to our toy collection and definitely goes on top. We love that we can both enjoy it and use it in different positions. The curved shape makes it easy to hold without causing discomfort over time to your hand and the large head gives you diffused vibration over your body.

Talking about what you want with your partner makes your time together so much more fun. You’re in for the adventure of a lifetime when you have an open-minded partner. Don’t let societal pressures and expectations stop you from getting everything you both desire.

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This wearable g spot vibrator has it all. It’s waterproof, with a 60 degree curved design to fit perfectly in your vagina for g-spot stimulation. With 10 vibration modes, you’re sure to find the pattern you need. And it comes with a remote control.

Made of medical soft silicone material, it’s safe and non-toxic while also being odorless and skin friendly.

No batteries required! It charges with USB charging, cable included, and takes approximately 2 hours to charge fully. It does come with a bit of a charge so you can wash and wear.

After cleaning with warm water and mild soap, I added a bit of silicone safe lubricant and slid it inside. I handed my husband the remote and laid back to enjoy some good vibrations!

How Does the Wearable G Spot Vibrator Feel?

Oh boy! There are lower frequencies for those who are sensitive, but I preferred the higher ones, since this is for internal stimulation. The outer part sits on the outside of the vagina, depending on your shape you may get some clitoral stimulation too.

The description on Best Vibe’s site states this is a 3 in 1 toy, to stimulate the g-spot, clitoris, and anus. This is really going to depend on the shape of your body. For me, there really wasn’t a lot of clitoral stimulation at all, as the piece on the vibrator that’s supposed to cover the clitoris doesn’t.

I did enjoy the rumbling vibrations internally, which gave me some stimulation anally while being penetrated. Although, admittedly, it’s no different than using any other type of penetrative toy in that regard.

Overall, it’s a fun toy for couple’s play or playing alone. It does get slippery, so I would recommend using the least amount of lube possible for best results.

The Bottom Line

After testing this wearable g spot vibrator initially, then going back to it a couple of times since, I admit, it’s sat unused in my toy drawer. Although it is fun and novel, it does not pack enough punch to be in my regular rotation. If a wearable is intriguing to you, then I would highly recommend it. However, if you just enjoy using your sex toys when you’re in bed, this isn’t going to be the toy for you.

I give it 3 out of 5 stars.

Disclaimer:

Best Vibe provided this toy to me, free of charge, in exchange for an honest review.